It’s a question in my mind and perhaps this is one of the subjects which men would want to know first hand from a woman like me. What makes a romantic man?
When I was little, I thought hearing the phrase ‘I Love You’ from my man is enough to make him romantic or if he is into giving out lavish gifts, hek no! There’s more than that. There’s a saying ‘actions speak louder than words’ and that is hundred percent true. This is in fact not only for men but for women too! How in a world, a person believes what you are telling when your action speaks differently?
I will also doubt.
Here’s my top 6 simple actions from a man that will make him romantic! These actions will give your woman quixotic excitement and fall in love to you again and again and again. You’ll see these are just simple actions that you can do but will absolutely give a tremendous impact in your relationship!
Simple Actions that Makes a Romantic Man
6. Holding your woman’s hand in public.
They call it ‘HHWW’ (Holding Hands While Walking). It’s not just a show off but a sweet security. You don’t need to hold her hand all the times, but at least when crossing the road, or probably while walking and rushing your way together to your favorite store in the mall, or when you feel that right time to hold her. Don’t hesitate to hold your woman’s hand in public. It will help her build the trust on you, she will feel safe with you.
I love it when my hubby does this to me! I feel secured and not being left behind. Especially when he holds my hand hardly and securely. It feels like he doesn’t want me to go somewhere else but to be with him all the time. Thus, I reciprocate and give him full authority as my husband.
Honestly some men are afraid to do this. Some because their culture dictates it or probably their religion, or probably they did not grow up in a affectionately environment. But, I am telling you. A true man has a soft heart and has the courage to put this in action even on the public eye! Try it! Do it!
“The stronger a man is, the more gentle he can afford to be”Elbert Hubbard, was an American writer, publisher, artist, and philosopher.
5. Feeding her and letting her taste what you have ordered during meal time together.
This gesture will melt her heart because she will feel special. It means you want her attention, you want to share your interest, and simply you want to share everything about you to her. It maybe a little awkward specially if you are in the public place like restaurant but it’s a magic to both of you.
At first, I felt awkward or shy when my hubby does this to me. I thought it’s very show off especially in public but honestly! Deep inside my heart, I always feel happy! I feel special. So, I just eventually gave in and every time he does it, we all acts naturally. And we are both happy munching and criticizing food together!
18. Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.Colossians 3:18-19
4. Driving or walking her to work, home, metro stations, or inviting her for a walk or long drive.
This is a chance to have a good talk, quality time, sharing of stories and even frustrations anything under the sun. She will feel your longingness and her importance to you. It’s also a good way of investing good memories, and when the times of trouble, looking back on these memories will soften your heart toward each other and help you reconcile.
When I was working, my hubby usually walks me to the metro station during morning. I was so grateful! Imagine his schedule as a Chef. He goes to work by 10 o’clock and reach the restaurant by 11.30 AM. He works until 12 midnight and reach home around 1.00 AM. He sleeps around 2.00 or 3.00 AM and wakes up by 6.30 AM to walk me! That was intense! And he does it without complaint. He even feels sad if he is unable to walk me!
“When I walk with you I feel as if I had a flower in my buttonhole.“William Makepeace Thackeray, was a British novelist, author and illustrator born in India.
Woman loves to cuddle. Cuddling is very important specially after making love. This will connect you more with her, she will feel loved and will lift her feelings towards you. Cuddling releases good hormones that can fight stress and anxiety. Cuddling is a sweet innocent intimacy which you can give your woman.
When I was working, every time I feel stressed out. My hubby’s wonder gesture was to cuddle and hugs me. It’s very comforting and relaxing. He doesn’t even say a word regarding what I vent from work. He just simply listens, hugs me, and will clear up every frustration I have for the day! Do it with your woman! She will truly appreciate it. 🙂
“When the right person hugs you, it’s like medicine.”Steve Maraboli, an American writer
2. Kiss on the forehead.
This is a sign of respect, trust, and love. It’s a sweet kiss without lust but only love and honesty. It’s a sign that you want to protect and guard your woman from anybody or anything else.
I always feel the tenderness of my hubby every time he does this. Some says it’s old fashion and it feels like a grandma kiss. But, I’m telling you.. it’s a pure love! It’s very comforting especially if it’s from a partner or spouse.
“A man’s kiss is his signature.”Mae West, was an American actress, singer, playwright, screenwriter, comedian, and sex symbol whose entertainment career spanned seven decades.
1. Eye to Eye Contact.
Staring to your love one in the eye will make you fall in love and make her fall in love with you repeatedly. This non-verbal communication is a great tool to connect, to be intimate, to show genuineness, and to even repair troubled relationship. Eye contact boosts your attractiveness in her perception. Having eye contact with your woman means your full attention is to her.
It feels good and exciting when my man looks me in the eye. I feel important when we have that connection. A genuine erotic feeling is starting to flare up every time there’s a eye to eye contact.
Falling in love maybe easy but staying in love is a challenge; especially to those couples that are together for a long time. It takes willingness and hard work to sustain a romantic relationship. But practicing simple actions like the above will make a huge impact to your daily routines as couples. You will never regret, trust me! Now, if you are a man already doing these; I salute you! Keep it up!
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